د. علي آل فرحان

Premarital Discussion Questions: A Practical Conversation Tool

Explore 16 premarital discussion topics and an Arabic tool that organises your responses without a readiness score or compatibility prediction.

Psychological measures

Arabic interactive tool available for adults.

Open the Arabic questionnaire

The tool opens on a separate page. Answers are not sent to a clinician.

Purpose

This original DrAliCare tool organises 16 premarital discussion topics, including expectations, finances, family boundaries, conflict and emotional closeness. It is a guidance tool, not a validated psychological scale, and has no established predictive accuracy.

How to use it

Complete it individually in Arabic, based on conversations that actually happened. Mark each topic as discussed and understood, discussed but needing clarification, not yet discussed, or currently not applicable. The result groups topics for further conversation; it gives no compatibility or readiness score.

Using your summary

Choose one unresolved topic and discuss a concrete everyday example. For household responsibilities, consider what happens when one partner is ill or busy. Your summary represents your perspective, not your partner’s. Sharing is optional. When fear, coercion or threats are present, prioritise safety and appropriate individual support. Answers are not stored in an account or sent to a clinician or partner.

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